Can Strong Prayer Bend the Medical Cost Curve?

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In a provocative essay entitled, “Randomized God,” internationally renowned psychiatrist David Healy lays out a blueprint for a clinical trial to test the healing power of prayer. Putting aside the spiritual benefits of supplication, a more pressing secular question might be phrased this way: Can strong prayer bend the medical cost curve?

Anecdotally, appealing to the Almighty offers awe-inspiring economic potential. In the Bible, both Moses and Jesus heal lepers, who are suffering from what today we would call chronic disease, while the prophet Elisha practices acute-care medicine by bringing a Shunammite woman’s dead child back to life. Think what they could do with diabetes or cancer!

Unfortunately, the key element seems to be not just these healers’ faith in the Lord, but also the Lord’s faith in them. For example, Moses speaks to God “face to face,” Jesus is God’s only begotten Son and Elisha is chosen by God as the successor to Elijah. Alas, our current medical groups, hospitals and health plans are overwhelmingly non-prophet institutions.

Still, the question remains whether prayers by ordinary people can produce an equivalent clinical impact. Healy, author of books such as Let Them Eat Prozac and Pharmageddon, offers a methodology for testing prayer that is no less intriguing for its firmly tongue-in-cheek underpinnings. As a scientist and progenitor of a website called Data-Based Medicine, he begins by citing three studies that have shown an effect, albeit a weak one, for cardiac patients who were prayed for versus those who were not. He then lays out a series of methodological issues for “Theo-therapeutics” more suited – quite deliberately – to a trial of a new drug than a trial of faith.

The first issue is who is doing the praying. For example, could stronger effects be obtained if those praying for healing were a purer population sample (e.g., children or monks)? Might Muslims, Jews or Hindus at prayer have more impact than Christians who pray and, if so, “could Christians resort to hiring Hindu Prayers while remaining Christian?” Would hospitals then have to hire accredited Prayers or risk legal liability?

Then there are the actual prayers being prayed. A careful study would look at a variety of confounding factors; e.g., the relative benefits of the more ritualized prayers in Catholicism and Orthodox Judaism versus “the more spontaneous approach found in Protestantism or Sufism.” If the benefits do derive from specific prayers, “some form of patent protection might be needed for companies hoping to develop better products,” Healy continues. Government or organized religion might want to patent prayer products “already in common use to ensure that the labor of millennia is not lost to the communities who did the work.”

Finally, there’s the delicate issue of the number of “sins” of the ill person as a possible impediment to prayer effectiveness. These could be measured in the Prodigal Son Rating Scale “to establish whether any effects occur in proportion to an individual’s history of sin.” Adds Healy, “We may have a real therapeutic crisis if it turns out [specific prayers and those praying] work better for sinners than for the virtuous.” That kind of effect could also prompt an economic crisis, as the paradoxical “wages of sin” prompt insurers to offer lower co-pays to alcoholics and gamblers.

Given Healy’s background as a pharmaceutical industry critic, his main intent seems to be poking fun at the way many physicians and patients have embraced psychotropic drugs based on studies no more sturdy than those he cites in support of faith healing. (For rhetorical purposes, he calls them “recent,” but the latest is from 2001 and subsequent research has provided no confirmatory evidence for prayer efficacy.) Nonetheless, Healy’s implicit call for intellectual rigor in therapeutics raises equally valid questions about the reimbursement of a whole ranger of complementary and alternative medical practices. Advocates’ assertions that these are “cost-saving interventions” often owe more to enthusiasm than evidence.

In addition, Healy raises uncomfortable questions about the capitalistic nature of our health care system. If, indeed, certain prayers could be shown to shorten the course of illness, would not American religious institutions rush to patent and license them, just as many of our (non-profit) universities have done with research on the human genome? Would not these same universities hope to reap a harvest of government grants by creating what Healy calls “departments of ethnosupplicantology”?

Over the course of history, self-anointed healers have included magicians, mediums, apothecaries, barbers and priests. The archbishop of Canterbury was legally able to award medical degrees in England as late as 1840. But even in our modern era, the precise confluence of therapeutic and personal factors that causes one individual to successfully fight off disease and another to flag and fade often remains a mystery. In health care, the equivalent of the wartime plea, “Praise the Lord, but pass the ammunition” would seem to be coupling faith in providence with full funding for the Patient-Centered Outcomes Research Institute.

“God heals, and the physician sends the bill,” advised an old aphorism. For now, any attempt to systematically enlist God’s power to help cut that bill remains only a prayer.

Calendar

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3 to 4 p.m. – Back to Basics Nutrition for Boomers class atEmily Fowler Public Library, 502 Oakland St. Better Living forTexans, a division of the Texas AgriLife Extension Service, offersa series of free nutrition and healthy living classes. To registeror for more information, call 940-349-8752 or .

11:30 a.m. – Denton City Council meets for a special called worksession at City Hall, 215 E. McKinney St. Visitcityofdenton.com.

6 p.m. – Denton’s Gas Well Task Force meets at City Hall, 215 E.McKinney St.

Chess Night from 6 to 8:45 p.m. at North Branch Library, 3020 N.Locust St. Players of all ages and skill levels welcome. Free. Call940-349-8752

Conservative Toastmasters meets at 7 p.m. at Denton RegionalMedical Center’s Educational Building, 3535-A I-35E.  or .

Denton Senior Center exercise classes are from 11 to 11:40 a.m.at 509 N. Bell Ave. Those age 50 and older are invited. No advancesign-up required. Call 940-349-8720 or 940-566-5242.

Denton Toastmasters public speaking club meets from 7 to 8:30p.m. at Lake Forest Good Samaritan, 3901 Montecito Drive, in theactivity building. Call 940-458-4669.

Duplicate play night at 6:30 p.m. at Denton Bridge Studio, 625Dallas Drive. Call 940-382-7977.

Jimenez Boxing Club meets from 6 to 7:30 p.m. at Martin LutherKing Jr. Recreation Center, 1300 Wilson St. Call 940-206-9035.

North Texas Toastmasters public speaking club meets from 12:05to 12:55 p.m. in Room 118 of Marquis Hall on the UNT campus. Visitorgs.unt.edu/toastmasters  or .

Compulsive Eaters Anonymous meets from 7:30 p.m. Call940-395-3334.

Denton County Gamblers Anonymous chapter meets from 10 to 11a.m. in Room 214 at First United Methodist Church of Denton, 201 S.Locust St. Meetings are open and nonsmoking. Call Waunita at940-390-9419.

Drug Addicts Anonymous (Faith in Action Group of Denton) meetsat 8 p.m. at Solutions of North Texas’ Wilshire Hall, 2216 N.Bolivar St. Call 940-898-6202, or visit sontx.org orsoberdorm.org.

The Memory Loss Support Group, for family members of people withAlzheimer’s or dementia, meets at 6:30 p.m. on the first and thirdMondays of the month in the second-floor meeting room at DogwoodEstates, 2820 Wind River Lane. Call Jane Hale at 940-231-2989.

Serenity Al-Anon, a support group for family and friends dealingwith the effects of someone’s drinking, meets at noon at FirstUnited Methodist Church, 201 S. Locust St.

Shalom Today group of Alcoholics Anonymous meets at noon, 6 and8 p.m. for discussion at 5011 W. University Drive. Call940-383-8252.

Show Me group of Alcoholics Anonymous meets at 9 a.m., noon, 6p.m. and 8 p.m. at 1622 W. University Drive, Suite 104. Call940-566-9989.

Unity group of Alcoholics Anonymous meets from 6 to 7 p.m. atFirst Baptist Church of Denton, 1100 Malone St. Call940-239-9238.

Women’s Support Group, a 12-step recovery program for women whowant to build healthy relationships, meets from 7 to 8 p.m. atDenton Regional Medical Center, Room A110, Doctor’s ConferenceRoom. Call 940-323-8787.

9 a.m. to noon – Spring preview days at Liberty ChristianSchool, 1301 S. U.S. Highway 377 in Argyle, for families withchildren from preschool to 12th grade. Administrators will welcomefamilies, and students will offer tours. Call 940-294-2000.

5 to 8 p.m. – Free income tax assistance offered by VITA(Volunteer Income Tax Assistance) at North Branch Library, 3020North Locust St. Total income per return cannot exceed $50,000 fortaxpayer year 2011. No appointment necessary. Free. Call940-566-2688.

7 p.m. – Valentine Story Time at Emily Fowler Central Library,502 Oakland St. Kids ages 1-5 can hear heart-warming stories andsongs, then make Valentine cards. Free. Call 940-349-8752 or visitdentonlibrary.com .

7 p.m. – Musician and philanthropist John Legend will speak andperform at the UNT Coliseum, at North Texas Boulevard and HighlandStreet. Part of UNT’s Distinguished Lecture Series. Stadium seatingis $25 for the public, $20 for UNT faculty, staff and alumni, andfree for UNT students. Floor seating is $40 for the public and $30for UNT faculty, staff and alumni. Call 940-565-3805 or visit theUNT Union Information Desk.

7 to 8 p.m. – Denton Spa Book Club at North Branch Library, 3020N. Locust St. Call 940-349-8774 or .

4:30 p.m. – Make Valentine’s Day cards for parents and lovedones at North Branch Library, 3020 N. Locust St. For children andteens of all ages. Free. Call 940-349-8752 or visitdentonlibrary.com .

6 to 8 p.m. – “UNT Speaks Out: Gas Well Drilling Redux,” a paneldiscussion featuring faculty members, on the first floor of UNT’sWillis Library, one block east of Highland Street and Avenue C.Free. Call Caroline Lara at 940-369-7573.

6:30 to 7:30 p.m. – Teen Advisory Board for teens in grades6-12. Help plan and run library programs, discuss books, movies andmusic, earn community service hours and more at North BranchLibrary, 3020 N. Locust St. Free. Call Juli Gonzalez at940-349-8741 or visit dentonlibrary.com .

7 p.m. – Professor’s Corner presents “Rudolph Fisher: The BestHarlem Renaissance Writer You’ve Never Heard Of,” a talk by TWUprofessor Genevieve West, at South Branch Library, 3228 TeasleyLane. Free. Call 940-349-8752.

7 to 8:30 p.m. – Exploring Philosophy at North Branch Library,3020 N. Locust St. Chat about philosophical questions with Eva H.Cadwallader, professor emerita. Free. Call 940-349-8752 toregister.

To tell us about your event or meeting, visit DentonRC.com and click on “Let Us Know” for our online forms; e-mail ; fax to 940-566-6888; or mail to Page 2 Calendar,Denton Record-Chronicle, 314 E. Hickory St., Denton, TX 76201.

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The Associated Press: Whitney Houston laid to rest at private burial

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WESTFIELD, New Jersey (AP) — Whitney Houston was laid to rest Sunday at a brief private ceremony in New Jersey, the end of a weekend that saw the pop star’s family and friends gather at a star-studded funeral to mourn her loss while celebrating her career.

Fans and onlookers gathered in several places along the route the motorcade took from the Newark funeral home to the cemetery about 20 miles (30 kilometers) away in Westfield, where Houston was buried next to her father, who died in 2003.

The 48-year-old singer died Feb. 11 in California, hours before she was to attend a pre-Grammy Awards party. No cause of death has been determined.

On Saturday, she was mourned at an invitation-only funeral at the church in Newark where she sang in the choir as a child. She was remembered by the biggest names in the music: Stevie Wonder and Alicia Keys sang, and industry mogul Clive Davis was among those who spoke, as was Kevin Costner, Houston’s co-star in “The Bodyguard.”

The funeral was closed to fans, who were not allowed within blocks of the church. Still, many came to Newark to take part in what ways they could, some from as far as Miami and Washington, D.C.

Fans gathered again near the funeral home Sunday morning, and some even slowly ran alongside the hearse as it began the journey to Houston’s gravesite. Several yelled out “We love you, Whitney” as the hearse, which had a black and white headshot of the star in a window, slowly drove away.

Barbara Davis, 53, of Newark, said she had been waiting outside the funeral home since 8:30 a.m., hoping to get a glimpse of Houston’s final trip.

“To be here at her home-going is an honor and a blessing,” Davis told The Star-Ledger of Newark.

Also among the crowd was Newark resident Eva Aquino and her two granddaughters, ages 10 and 13. All three stood on a street corner as the hearse passed by, and they used cellphones to snap photos of the procession.

The girls were wearing T-shirts and buttons of Houston that their grandmother had bought from vendors outside the funeral home Saturday.

“We came here and bought all these things of her to cherish the memories,” said 13-year-old Nalani Velez of Kearny.

The burial came a day after an emotional, nearly four-hour service at Newark’s New Hope Baptist Church that ended with the strains of Houston’s biggest record, “I Will Always Love You,” filling the church.

Her mother, gospel singer Cissy Houston wailed, “My baby! My baby!” as she was held up by two women and led out of the church behind the casket bearing her daughter’s body. A few steps behind her was the pop icon’s daughter, Bobbi Kristina, also crying uncontrollably as she was comforted by Houston’s close friend, singer Ray J.

Her death marked the end of a life of stunning achievement. Blessed with a voice of great power and beauty, Houston became one of pop music’s most successful artists over a career that spanned nearly three decades and segued into film with hits like “The Bodyguard.”

But her life was not without struggles. An addiction to drugs and a tumultuous union with ex-husband Bobby Brown saw her tumbling from grace.

Both sides of Houston were recalled at the service at New Hope, which was filled with about 300 mourners, including Oprah Winfrey, Tyler Perry, Mariah Carey, Mary J. Blige, Forest Whitaker, Jennifer Hudson, Diane Sawyer and Houston’s cousin, Dionne Warwick.

“She was someone with a charmed and a beautiful life, sometimes misunderstood, even by herself,” said her sister-in-law and manager, Patricia Houston. “But a life nevertheless that gave joy, happiness, enthusiasm, peace and beautiful music to millions of people around the world.”

Costner, her co-star in “The Bodyguard,” said that for all of Houston’s beauty and success, she was still yearning for approval from the public and somewhat insecure, a superstar who “still wondered, ‘Am I good enough? Am I pretty enough? Will they like me?’”

“It’s a tree we could all hang from — the unexplainable burden that comes with fame,” he said. “Call it doubt. Call it fear. I’ve had mine. And I know the famous in the room have had theirs.”

Many who spoke talked about Houston’s unshakable faith in Jesus Christ. They said it got her through some of her most difficult times. Perry recalled a conversation where Houston would look sad when reflecting on her troubles, but then would hasten to add that God was taking care of her.

“The other thing I know for sure — and this is more important than anything that she’s done in her life — Whitney Houston loved the Lord,” he said.

Fittingly, music played a major role in the send-off to one of music’s greatest voices.

Stevie Wonder rewrote lyrics to “Ribbon in the Sky” for Houston — “you will always be a ribbon in the sky,” he sang.

So did gospel’s the Rev. Kim Burrell for “A Change is Gonna Come,” which Warwick said was Houston’s favorite song of all time. R. Kelly brought the New Hope Baptist Church to its feet with a stirring version of “I Look to You,” the title of Houston’s final studio album.

And Keys, her voice breaking at times, dedicated her song “Send Me An Angel” to Houston

Brown briefly appeared at the funeral, walking to the casket, touching it and walking out. He later said in a statement that he and his children were asked repeatedly to move and he left rather than risk creating a scene.

Warwick presided over the funeral, introducing speakers and singers and offering short insights about her cousin; she joked that Houston’s Super Bowl performance of “The Star Spangled Banner” became almost as big as the telephone book.

Over her career, Houston sold more than 50 million records in the United States alone. Her voice, an ideal blend of power, grace and beauty, made classics out of songs like “Saving All My Love For You,” ”I Will Always Love You,” ”The Greatest Love of All” and “I’m Every Woman.” Her six Grammys were only a fraction of her many awards.

Houston had her first No. 1 hit by the time she was 22, followed by a flurry of No. 1 songs and multi-platinum records. Her last album, “I Look To You,” debuted on the top of the charts when it was released in 2009 with strong sales, but didn’t have the staying power of her previous records. A tour the next year was doomed by cancellations because of illness and sub-par performances.

Copyright © 2012 The Associated Press. All rights reserved.

Christian Dior: LIFE Covers the Birth of the ‘New Look,’ 1948

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In March 1948, LIFE introduced its readers to a pioneering French fashion designer and what the magazine called his “revolutionary” vision. The monsieur in question was none other than (in writer Jeanne Perkins marvelous characterization) “a timid, middle-aged, insignificant-looking little Frenchman named Christian Dior,” and the fashion earthquake he unleashed was, LIFE informed America, something called, simply and unforgettably, the “New Look.”

Here, in a tribute to the recently departed Fashion Week 2012, LIFE.com offers not only a glimpse back at a seminal moment in fashion history, but presents pictures (some that appeared in the magazine, many that have never been published before) by some of LIFE’s finest photographers, taken at a Dior show in Paris in 1948, when the New Look was all the rage and a timid, middle-aged, insignificant-looking little Frenchman astonished and thrilled the couture world. Below is an abridged version of the article that ran in the March 1, 1948, issue of LIFE, beneath the headline, “DIOR,” and the enticing blurb:

“I know well the women,” says the shy little Frenchman who made the New Look and is now on top of the fashion world.

“Like most dramas involving an entire social upheaval,” Perkins wrote, “the New Look revolution has had many villains (or heroes, depending on one’s point of view). But the main one is … named Christian Dior, who would be instantly picked by anyone familiar with whodunits as the character least likely to be suspected. M Dior, who looks extraordinarily like a Kewpie doll, is short, round, bald; wears dark dowdy, unpressed suits, office-worker ties and shirts and pointed shoes. One of New York’s fashion sophisticates, after first meeting M. Dior in America a few months ago, remarked, ‘I’d been waiting for this chic, dashing character, and what do I find? A French undertaker.’

“The first results of the Dior insurrection,” LIFE went on, “had, in fact, frankly appalled M. Dior himself. At his Paris opening last year, besieged by a shrieking throng of reporters, editors and buyers, he had been heard to murmur, ‘My God, what have I done?’ Dior had, in fact, begun the third fashion revolution of the 20th Century. Paul Poiret had revolutionized women’s clothes in 1910, Gabrielle Chanel had staged the next uprising after World War I. In February 1947 Christian Dior ushered in the New Look.”

All three of these revolutionafries, LIFE argued, “managed to uproot the current style and replace it with their own by following the basic axiom which has been the source of every major style change in history: study the fundamental trends of your time and then go against them.”

Dior, it seemed, “follows the same profound rule. Now that fabrics are scarce and finances shaky in many countries, he launches styles requiring extravagant yardage and luxurious fabrics. The obvious fact that it makes no sense only proves the logic of fashion.

“Like all great revolutionists, Christian Dior is a creature of destiny. He did not create the New Look single-handed. But he appeared at the psychological moment as its man on plush horseback. As far back as the late 1930s Martha Graham’s modern ballet troupe was wearing the knee-covering, bosom-exposing garments currently featured as the New Looks. In 1941 Harper’s Bazaar solemnly warned its readers: ‘Watch your skirt length. If this longer skirt length looks right to you, you’re a woman of the future.’ … Dior senses this situation (‘I know very well the women’). He also senses that the time was exactly ripe to convert these minority manifestations into a powerful mass movement….

“Although scarcely anyone had ever heard of him before last year, Christian Dior had been a minor league figure in Paris dress business, on and off, since 1936. About a year and a half ago, with backing from a French gambler and millionaire named Marcel Boussac, he left a job as one of Lucien Lelong’s numerous assistants to open his own dress shop — a fine old mansion on the Avenue Montaigne, a few steps away from the Champs Elysées. He plunged lavishly, staking everything on a single throw. For four months 85 decorators and painters labored to produce an atmosphere of discreet elegance unequaled in any existing Paris salon de couture. When the setting was ready, Dior retired to his little country house near Fontainbleau and meditated for a week. He returned from his lonely vigil, his pockets stuffed with 300 designs scrawled on odd bits of paper.

“‘I’m a mild man,’ Dior says, ‘but I have violent tastes.’ Violent tastes were precisely what the situation demanded. Dior went all-out for his new line. His narrow waists became as much as 2 inches narrower by means of specially installed corsets. His low necks were so low that they barely stopped at the waist. Other designers might sidle up to old-fashioned femininity and romance; Dior tackled it headlong. In contrast to the tentative experiments of previous progressives, Dior’s cloths constituted a complete turnabout.

“Three weeks ago,” LIFE concluded, “the new spring showing of Dior models opened in Paris…. ‘Chalk up another fast one for Christian Dior,’ exhorted WNBC’s Peter Roberts. ‘Yesterday he let the world in on his ideas for 1948. And the folks who should know were betting dollars to oughuts he was going to lengthen skirts a little more. But friend Dior … shortened skirts! Not much — but shortened. Just one inch …”‘

Ex-Jew-Counter Against Politicizing Religion

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A TV-watching tipster caught Mitt Romney adviser Fred Malek on MSNBC today discussing the crucial upcoming Michigan primary. Transcript and video here, including this following exchange (which I’ve transcribed, and the bold is mine):

ANDREA MITCHELL: Let me ask you about the religion issue, because Franklin Graham on Morning Joe today was asked about the Mormon question and this is the way he handled it. He basically said that Christians do not view the Mormon faith as a Christian faith. Let me play it for you.

ANDREA MITCHELL: Do you think this is an issue? Was it an issue in South Carolina? Will it be an issue in Michigan? Will it be an issue on super tuesday in the South?

FRED MALEK: I don’t think it’s a issue at all, and it would be a sad day in America if we’re gonna elect somebody based upon their religion or vote against somebody based on their religion.

As members of a minority faith, many Jews no doubt agree with Malek’s sentiment; and last week in Tablet Magazine, Yair Rosenberg persuasively argued that many anti-Mormon tropes and conspiracy theories have plenty in common with anti-Semitic ones.

Which is why it’s worth remembering that, as The New Republic‘s Timothy Noah has been particularly careful not to let us forget, Fred Malek used to be President Nixon’s Jew-counter: at his boss Nixon’s direction, he compiled a list of Jews (or, rather, people with Jewish names) at the Bureau of Labor Statistics; actively worked to demote or halt the promotion of some of these people; then lied about it; and since has neither corrected his lies nor apologized for his original actions. “I believe that Malek was probably repulsed by what he ended up doing for Nixon,” Noah wrote. “But he did it, and ever since Malek has lied to avoid admitting the depth of his involvement in this grotesque episode.” It didn’t seem to bother Sarah Palin when she had him as an adviser; it somehow feels more troubling that it also apparently does not bother Romney.

Related: Protocols of the Elders [Tablet Magazine]Earlier: Nixon’s Jew-Counter Returns to Spotlight

Sermons on More Sex? Pastors Preach ‘Pro-Sex God’ to Christian Couples

Church might be the last place congregants would expect to talk about sex, but a brash new crop of preachers are starting to aggressively tackle the taboos of intimacy from the pulpit, or in some cases, from the roof of their church.

Evangelical Pastor Ed Young and his wife Lisa of Grapevine, Texas, said Christians have been unenthusiastic and unimaginative about sex for far too long. To demonstrate their point, the couple had an elaborate “bed-in” event, in which they had a crane lift a bed onto the top of their Grapevine congregation’s church and settled in for the next 24 hours to talk about their favorite topic: Sex.

“I think in the Christian world, there are so many people who are uneasy about sex and sexuality,” Ed Young said. “Most married couples want to have sex, but they’re not having enough sex.”

“For far too long, the church has been completely silent about something God has not been silent about at all,” said Lisa Young.

In their radical new book, “The Sexperiment,” the Youngs challenge heterosexual Christian married couples — LGBT and unwed singles need not apply — to have sex every day for a week.

“Our message is to shout it from the rooftop that God is pro-sex,” Ed Young said.

“The first place to have that talk is in the home,” added his wife. “The second place to have that talk is in the church.”

Their “bed-in” was modeled after an event first put on in 1969 by gleeful blasphemers John Lennon and Yoko Ono. The Youngs said they are trying to take sex back from a popular culture that has perverted it.

“The sad thing is that our culture is throwing all these cues, all words, all these pictures of what sex is to our children, to couples to spouses, to husbands and wives, and it’s not working out well for marriages,” Lisa Young said.

The Youngs point out that the topic of sex is discussed throughout the Bible. For example, in the rather risqué Song of Solomon 4:3, two lovers rhapsodize about each other’s lips and mouth: “Thy lips are like a thread of scarlet, and thy talk is comely: thy temples are within thy locks as a piece of a pomegranate.”

And there’s even a passage in Song of Solomon 4:16 that includes coming into the garden and eating the pleasant fruit, which has been interpreted by some Biblical scholars as a reference to oral sex: “Arise, O north, and come O south, and blow on my garden that the spices thereof may flow out: let my well beloved come to his garden, and eat his pleasant fruit.”

“Sex is primarily for recreation,” Ed Young said. “It’s for pleasure. It’s for fun — secondarily for procreation.”

While the Youngs insist their “Sexperiment” is about improving marriages, not a sex how-to guide, another book written by a different pastor and his wife from Seattle comes very close to just that.

Pastor Mark Driscoll and his wife Grace just published “Real Marriage,” a book that includes entire chapter devoted to their interpretations of the Bible’s teachings on oral sex.

“The Bible seems to speak of [oral sex] on a few occasions in the context of marriage in the ‘Song of Solomon’ in a way that is poetic and recognizes it as an acceptable aspect of marriage, not mandatory, but acceptable,” Mark Driscoll said.

The Driscolls also offer a chapters about masturbation and anal sex, which they admit are not discussed in the Bible.

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“[Anal sex] is not a sin,” Mark Driscoll said. “It might not be healthy and good, so we wouldn’t generally recommend it, but you can’t say that it’s a sin because it’s not in the Bible.”

However, the Driscolls said not everything related to sex is approved — for one, pornography is off limits.

Jewish Dating Site Makes Television News

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Ed Stetzer – Mormonism, Cults, and Christianity

1329906152 66 Ed Stetzer   Mormonism, Cults, and ChristianityWelcome USAToday and Huffington Post readers (click on the links to read those stories). Please note that the comment rules (no off-topic comments, inappropriate language, trolling, etc) are in effect and will be enforced. ___________________________

The news is abuzz with the question of Mormonism, cults, and Christianity.

A cult is often understood as a religious group with strange beliefs out of the cultural mainstream (which many today increasingly consider biblical Christianity). Since “cult” is difficult to define, scholars tend not to use it.

However, the question of what beliefs characterize Christianity is not a new debate, and is one we should not shy away from if words and definitions matter.

Many people are shocked at the idea that some pastors believe Mormons are not Christians– “judgementalism” is decried and “intolerance” proclaimed. Yet, as that may be new news to some, the view that Mormons are not Christians is historic and very widely held view.

In 2007, LDS spokesman Michael Otterson provided a forthright article in the On Faith section of the Washington Post / Newsweek. He explains,

The question, “Are Mormons Christian?” is a good starting point for this discussion. When some conservative Protestants say Mormons aren’t Christian, it is deeply offensive to Latter-day Saints. Yet when Latter-day Saints assert their Christianity, some of those same Christians bitterly resent it. Why? Because both sides are using the same terms to describe different things…

When someone says Mormons aren’t Christian… he or she usually means that Mormons don’t embrace the traditional interpretation of the Bible that includes the Trinity. “Our Jesus” is somehow different from “their Jesus.” Further, they mean that some Mormon teachings are so far outside Christian orthodoxy of past centuries that they constitute almost a new religion.

Otterson is correct here. For evangelicals and others, “Christian” is more than a self-identified label. It is hard for people in tolerant America to hear, “I know you SAY you are a Christian, but you are not.” Yet, basic to evangelicalism (and historic Protestantism) is that some people are Christians, some people are not, and not all people who think that they are Christians actually are.

“Christianity” is not based on what you say about yourself or your beliefs. “Christianity” must be connected to how your beliefs agree with the beliefs of biblical Christianity.

With Mormonism becoming a major topic of discussion, about a year ago LifeWay Research decided to ask Protestant pastors their view. According to our random sample, most pastors feel strongly Mormons are not Christians. After several reporters asked if we had some data, I decided to release it. You can download the full report here: Protestant Pastor Views of Mormonism.

The survey polled 1,000 American Protestant pastors asking them to respond to the statement, “I personally consider Mormons (Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints) to be Christians.” It’s a forthright question some will find offensive, but it will be an increasingly important question.

Three-quarters of Protestant pastors (75%) disagree with the statement, “I personally consider Mormons… to be Christians,” including 60 percent who strongly disagree and 15 percent who somewhat disagree. Just 11 percent somewhat agree, 6 percent strongly agree and 9 percent do not know.

In other words, the view that “Mormons are not Christians” is the widely and strongly held view among Protestant pastors. That does not mean they do not respect Mormons as persons, share their values on family, and have much in common. Yet, they simply view Mormonism as a distinct religion outside of basic teachings of Christianity. Many of these pastors may know Mormons consider themselves Christians, but Protestant pastors overwhelmingly do not consider them such.

I know this is an unpleasant question to many, and one that some will use as a hammer on evangelicals, but let me encourage a different view.

The fundamental issue is: how divergent can your views be and still be a part of a faith group (in contrast to forming a new one). Can you believe, for instance, that Muhammad is not the prophet and still call yourself a Muslim? The vast majority of Muslims would say you cannot. For Christians, calling yourself a Christian while not believing that God has always existed as the triune Father, Son, and Holy Spirit is as inconceivable.

This is not simply a conservative evangelical Christian view. Methodists have said “the LDS Church is not a part of the historic, apostolic tradition of the Christian faith.” Even Roman Catholics (hardly conservative Protestants) don’t recognize LDS baptism.

As I said before, a cult is difficult to define. But Christianity has been defined a certain way for centuries. There is no reason to be shocked that devout Christians consider those with a different view of Christ as non-Christians. In the current cultural climate it may be uncomfortable, but it is anything but shocking.

Christian Dating Sites: The Perfect Venue for Christian Singles to Mix and Match

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Searching for the one true love may sound perfect, but you can find the “one”, if you only continue to look and not give up. Many online dating sites offer these services but only a Christian dating site provides a list of Christian names for you to choose. With a plethora of profiles in the dating site, can you actually search for the one true love through the Christian dating site?

One of the more specific dating sites that can cater to a highly specified group like the Christians is a Christian dating site. For those Christian men and women who have the desire to meet people, get to know them and who knows, marry them, there is good news! An online Christian dating site can make things happen to fulfill their desires of meeting a Christian and eventually find love. If Christian beliefs and conviction is a must, then having a Christian dating site is extremely helpful.

Rather than wading through dating sites wondering if the people you will meet are going to have the same core beliefs, joining Christian dating sites will allow you to know that every profile that you view, and every person that you meet will share the same Christian views that you hold dear, and this is a vital part of making a Christian relationship work. In other words, Christian dating sites are ideal for anyone who is serious about their faith, and who wants to meet up with other people who are serious about their faith and beliefs as well. Choosing a dating site that is dedicated to Christianity will allow you to meet people that have core beliefs in common with you.

This is a great way to forge a brand new relationship because you already will know that you agree when it comes to religion and spirituality. It would be a shame to fall in love with someone, only to find out that they do not have the same religious beliefs as you. Christian dating sites, however, help to assure you that everyone you meet will share the same beliefs, and religious beliefs are important when it comes to forging new relationships.

If this is your first -time to search for someone special through online means, make sure you can make it right. It may not be a pleasant experience to fall in love and find out that you differ in your spirituality and Christian beliefs. Christian dating sites are perfect avenues for Christian singles trying to meet the perfect one!

Search for love on Christian Dating S when you want it most. Christian Dating can be the most perfect venue to find the perfect and one sincere love you had been searching for all these years.

Generals see light at the end of the tunnel

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Oshawa General goaltender Kevin Bailie finds himself with plenty of company as teammates Scott Laughton (21) and Daniel Maggio (5) arrive at his doorstep, along with Guelph’s Ryan Horvat (12) and Jason Dickinson (11).

Perhaps the Oshawa Generals are in their own little way finding that competitive mode to “reach for the stars.”

Despite a 3-2 loss to the 67’s in Ottawa Friday night, the Generals rebounded nicely with a 4-2 victory over the Guelph Storm Sunday afternoon at the GM Centre.

And if they were able to pull off a victory last night (Tuesday) in Peterborough, lo and behold, the Generals are sitting in sixth place in the Eastern Conference with the Petes looking up.

This does appear to be the fun, yet challenging time of the season for the Oshawa squad which has experienced more than its share of highs and lows this Ontario Hockey League (OHL) campaign.

It also appears the words of head skipper Gary Agnew have been relentless before and especially during game situations in his endeavour to initiate some consistency on all lines leaping over the boards.

A win or two can keep the Generals in the playoff hunt. Alas, a couple of losses can also put the club in jeopardy of the post-season party with the Petes, Belleville Bulls and Mississauga St. Michael’s Majors also in the hunt.

“The coach reminds us about having to stick to a game plan and I know that’s what we have to do,” observes German sniper Sebastian Uvira, who figured on one of the four goals against the Storm

“I’m learning more about skating straight rather than the European style. That’s what the coach has been telling me. So,  I’m having fun, but I’m also doing the best I can to help the team.”

Agnew has made an impression in the dressing room, adds Lucas Lessio.

“He’s been giving us great feedback and now that we really have a chance of getting into the playoffs we have to keep working hard out there and getting a string of wins together,” says Lessio. “There are some games when five or six minutes kills us. So,  we’ve got to find that full 60 minutes of consistency. We’re getting closer and closer it seems and once we get around the bend in the last 15 or 16 games, we’ll be getting ready for the playoffs.”

The Storm came out hitting and instituting a fleet-footed style to catch the Generals back on their skates at the outset, resulting in Oshawa penalties.

Cody McNaughton notched the only goal of the opening frame.

Agnew was not impressed with what he had viewed from his bench location up to that point.

“I thought we were soft and non-competitive in the first period,” notes Agnew. “We needed to pick up the game, especially this time of year when we can’t afford to go out there and see how the other team does and base our effort and competitiveness on that. “We had a little chat.”

Goals by Scott Laughton and Uvira lifted the Generals to a 2-1 lead with one period remaining as the Generals came at the Storm with the same vengeance Guelph showcased in the opening stanza.

Kevin Bailie was called on to make several excellent stops and although Matt Finn knotted the score for the Storm early in the third frame on the powerplay, the Generals responded with two unanswered goals by Christian Thomas and Nicklas Jensen to seal the victory.

“Yah, we did play much better in the second and third periods,” adds Agnew. “We gut it out and I’m really happy with the response. It wasn’t an easy game to win because it was a man’s game out there with a lot of battles and competitive issues and I thought we stepped up when we needed to.”

The Generals held tough for the most part of Friday’s tilt in the nation’s capital, but fell on the short end by a single tally to the 67’s.

Jensen and Thomas responded for the Generals.

“We played well in Ottawa,” offers Agnew. “We didn’t score on a couple of good chances we had. But a part of that is fighting for ice and getting to the hard areas. Position and system wise, we we’re fine. We’ve got to get meaner and tougher.

“With the number of games left to be played, you’re not going to see those 8-2 games. Most of them will be 1-0, 2-1 and 3-2 scores. That’s the way it is.”

The Generals are home for a pair of games this weekend, beginning with Saturday night’s contest against the Kingston Frontenacs at 7:05 p.m. They play host to the Niagara IceDogs on Sunday night, starting at 6:05 p.m.