Christian Marriage: The Most Excellent Way

1327693328 57 Christian Marriage: The Most Excellent Way

And now I will show you the most excellent way.  If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal…  1 Cor 12: 31, 13: 1 NIV

Have you ever found yourself in a room of marriage cynics? The comments sound something like this:

  • Wait as long as you can to get married. Live your life before you have to give it up!
  • Marriage is hard.
  • Marriage just doesn't "work" for most people.
  • My husband doesn't… (fill in the blank here with unmet desires)
  • I wish she wouldn't… (fill in the blank here with built-up frustrations)

There's a lot of negativity out there about marriage. I'm sure I haven't even covered the full spectrum of comments. It's enough to give a bride an anxiety attack. What kind of credence should we give to such comments? I've had to think about this a lot lately. I mean, as a newlywed, am I really just a blind idiot who entered into a broken, unfulfilling institution? Looking around at the broader culture, it can sure seem that way. But not long after my husband and I got engaged last year, a married coworker slipped into my office. She shared: "You'll hear people tell you how awful marriage is. Don't listen to it. Trust me, a marriage centered on Christ is very fulfilling!" Then I ran across this inspiring article titled More Than a Table for Two: The Difference a Christ-centered Marriage Makes by bride Stephanie Duncan. She observes: Our culture tells so many stories of relational wreckage.  Instead of learning love from a Personal Being, a secular marriage too often practices love not as a sacred quality but a sentiment divorced from its very Creator.  In a sense, they are borrowing an attribute that belongs to a God they don't know and exercising a representation of a spiritual truth they don't believe. This disconnect from the Author of Love seems to be at the very root of why there are so many marriage cynics out there. After all, scripture tells us clearly "We love because he first loved us" (1 John 4: 19). How on earth could we love another human being at all, much less for life, if we're cut off from the source of all love? 

I would also like to read the book that instigated the article – Rebecca Price Janney's Then Comes Marriage?: A Cultural History of the American Family. Janney is a "theologically trained historian" who sets out to put American family life in perspective by debunking some of the myths fueled by 1950's pop culture. Duncan shares:   Rather than condemning the culture, Janney turns this scenario on its head by placing the weight of responsibility on Christians to display "the most excellent way" and shine all the brighter… After intriguing tales of bride ships, Victorian modesty, and feminist activism, Janney brings her readers to the conclusion that the restoration of the American family is up to the saints. In other words, challenges to marriage are nothing new. But no matter the era, Christian couples can help others see "the most excellent way" (1 Cor 12) of true love. What a wonderful mission for married life! Of course, it's a bit presumptuous to think that just because you're Christian, you can start preachin' and teachin' marriage seminars. So I appreciated Duncan's thoughts on how she and her fiancé want to take up the challenge to redeem the crumbling state of marriage. She shares:  Zach and I may not have company china or the kind of house that can accommodate a church retreat, but we will get to know our neighbors.  In August we plan to run a 5K together to support the local crisis pregnancy center, and once we find a church we plan to get involved.  This is not because we think we have anything fantastic to offer, but because we feel that opening our lives to others is part of spiritual obedience and we want to start this habit now. I couldn't agree with this approach more. Normal people doing normal things to grow closer to God, each other, and as a result, shine a light in the surrounding community. My husband and I look forward to joining couples like Stephanie and Zach as we grow in this "most excellent way."  Christian marriage may not translate into the "easiest way" or "the most obvious way," but I suspect the Christ-centered journey will be the most joyful way. And hopefully we'll take a few people along the road with us.

Are you frustrated and exhausted with the constant political wrangling over the definition of marriage? You may feel there is little you can contribute to the issue, but as a Christian, your life is a witness to the world of Christ's love. If you're married, your marriage is also a special witness of Christ's love. Are you living in a way that allows His love to shine clearly and brightly to a hurting world?

Sarah Phillips, Crosswalk.com’s Family Editor, embraced faith in Christ at an unlikely phase in her life: as a skeptical undergraduate at Virginia Tech. She now enjoys putting her VT English degree to use at the Salem Web Network by observing and reflecting on cultural trends, marriage, family life, and the human condition through the lens of Christianity. When she’s not writing or editing, Sarah enjoys spending time with her husband, Corey.

ISU men’s Brown ready for 2nd-half MVC charge

1327690934 88 ISU mens Brown ready for 2nd half MVC charge

NORMAL — Sitting 4-5 and tied for sixth place in the MissouriValley Conference with nine league games left, Tyler Brown claimshe isn’t worried about Illinois State’s basketball team.

“We haven’t pinpointed it yet, but we’re going to figure it outand turn it around,” he said before Tuesday’s practice.

If the rest of the Redbirds follow Brown’s lead, they could bejust fine.

The athletic 6-foot-4 junior guard, in his first year at ISU(12-8) after transferring from Marshalltown (Iowa) CommunityCollege, has averaged 14.4 points in the last eight games. Brownhas emerged as a leading candidate for the Valley Newcomer of theYear award ahead of Wednesday’s 6:05 p.m. game against MissouriState (12-9, 5-4) at Redbird Arena.

Brown leads all Valley newcomers in scoring  average at a 12.8points per game. He also is second overall in the league in3-pointers made (47) and third in 3-point percentage (.452).

Defensively, Brown might have played his best game lastSaturday. He helped hold Evansville sharpshooter Colt Ryan to6-of-23 shooting as the Purple Aces downed ISU, 79-71.

“He’s a first-year guy. He’s going through the naturalprogression and he’s progressing quickly,” said ISU coach TimJankovich. “He played an outstanding all-around game at Evansville,not just on the offensive end. He did the lion’s share guardingColt and did a terrific job.”

ISU has played every Valley team once except Bradley. Brownbelieves that knowledge will come in handy during his second laparound the league.

“I feel more comfortable,” he said. “The last game againstEvansville, just knowing how to guard Colt Ryan and the plays theyrun, it’s a lot more comfortable against these teams.”

Brown earned his first Valley Newcomer of the Week award Monday.He averaged 19 points in two games last week, including acareer-high 24 points against Indiana State.

The last ISU player to capture the Valley Newcomer of the Yearaward was Lorenzo Gordon in 2005. Brown’s competition for thathonor could come from Creighton’s Grant Gibbs, Missouri State’sJarmar Gulley and Michael Bizoukas and Redbird freshman guard NicMoore.

ISU could have Bryant Allen back Wednesday night. Allen missedthe last two games with a sprained ankle. Jankovich said thesophomore guard is still considered “day to day.”

The Redbirds’ lone road Valley win came at Missouri State onJan. 4. The Redbirds downed the defending Valley regular-seasonchampions, 68-60. However, Missouri State was without 6-11 centerCaleb Patterson (12.9 ppg) because of a concussion.

Patterson has returned, although he is now coming off the bench.“He changes the complexion of our team on the offensive end,” saidMissouri State coach Paul Lusk.

Kyle Weems (15.9 ppg) still remains the focus of ISU’s defensetonight. The Bears’ senior forward, who was the Valley Player ofthe Year last season, recorded the 100th double-digit scoring gameof his career last week, the most of any active Division Iplayer.

Savard, Cornelison on hand: Former ChicagoBlackhawks standout Denis Savard and acclaimed national anthemsoloist Jim Cornelison will be available for autographs andpictures on the concourse when the gates open at 5 p.m.

Cornelison will sing his stirring rendition of the Star SpangledBanner before the game as he does at the United Center in Chicagowhen the Blackhawks play. Cornelison also performed at ISU lastyear.

Follow along

Join ISU beat writer Jim Benson for an online chat before thegame at live.pantagraph.com and follow him during and after that onTwitter at twitter.com/Pg_Benson

Redbird essentials

Missouri State at Illinois State

Site: Redbird Arena, Normal

Radio: WJBC (AM-1230, FM-93.7)

Records: Missouri State 12-9, 5-4 Valley; ISU 12-8, 4-5

Series/Last meeting: ISU leads, 33-23 (ISU won 68-60 on Jan.4).

About the Bears: Missouri State is 3-1 in Valley road games,with the lone defeat coming at Northern Iowa, 61-60. … JarmarGulley will come off the bench for the second straight game becauseof a sprained foot. The 6-4 swingman is the Bears’ third-leadingscorer (11.0 ppg) and second-leading rebounder (5.5). … Sophomoreguard Keith Pickens sat out Missouri State’s 51-48 victory atBradley on Saturday with knee soreness. He is questionable fortoday’s game. … Michael Bizoukas, a transfer from DePaul, leads theValley in assists (6.0) and assist/turnover ratio (3.3) and isthird in minutes played (33.1).

Next: Saturday vs. Southern Illinois, 3:05 p.m.

Prediction: Illinois State 67, Missouri State 63

Probable starters

(Scoring, rebounding avg)

MISSOURI STATE

F — Kyle Weems, 6-6, Sr. (15.9, 7.5); Christian Kirk, 6-7, Fr.(3.3, 3.1); G — Anthony Downing, 6-1, Jr. (10.8, 3.1); MichaelBizoukas, 6-1, Sr. (4.9, 3.4); Nathan Scheer, 6-4, So. (2.9,1.4).

ILLINOIS STATE

F — John Wilkins, 6-9, Jr. (7.9, 3.9); Jon Ekey, 6-7, So. (9.5,5.2); C — Jackie Carmichael, 6-9, Jr. (12.8, 8.2); G — Tyler Brown,6-4, Jr. (12.8, 3.9); Nic Moore, 5-9, Fr. (9.2, 1.9).

An ideal mix of technology & nature

1327689726 48 An ideal mix of technology & nature

Technology is something that people can’t do without nowadays. Almost everyone has a mobile phone and everyone can go online either in his own home or at the nearest Internet café.

Hence, imagine living in a community where Internet access is readily available not just inside your home but also anywhere in the village—whether it’s the neighbor’s place or the school premises or the village playground or the clubhouse or even the town plaza.

That’s exactly what Picar Development has in mind when it created Ara Vista Village, a master-planned mixed-use community covering a sprawling 50-hectare lot in General Trias, Cavite. Envisioned to be the very first Wi-Fi Town of its kind, it embraces the best of both worlds with its nature-inspired quality living amid a technology-based setting.

Futuristic living is no longer something you see in the movies. It’s already a reality at Ara Vista Village. As a Wi-Fi-enabled residential community, homeowners will have ready access to the World Wide Web there. Anywhere they are in the area, they can surf the Web, check their e-mail, chat and send instant messages. 

Within the village, Ara Vista Village also includes a Peza-accredited Information Technology Park located in Phase 7 that also shares a park-life atmosphere similar to that of the main road. Tree-lined IT Park roads have a total width of two meters: one at each side. Residents should be able to get a Wi-Fi signal on their laptops or mobile phones anywhere in the community.

And speed is not sacrificed at the expense of accessibility. Even with multiple users connected at the same time, Internet service doesn’t grind to a halt. The developers at Picar have designed Ara Vista Village in such a way that no one should be deprived of a speedy bandwidth at any time they decide to go online.

All this high technology is also not necessarily out of place with the rest of the area. Picar is developing Ara Vista Village around an equally progressive town known for its close proximity to educational institutions like Lyceum of the Philippines, Philippine Christian University and De La Salle Medical School-Cavite, shopping complexes and industrial attractions like the Cavite Export Processing Zone, First Cavite Industrial Estate and Gateway Business Park.

The best thing about Ara Vista Village is that it’s not only a technology-friendly community that has just about everything the entire family needs in this information age, it also features the best that nature has to offer.

It all starts with the community’s very location. Just a few minutes’ drive from Tagaytay City, considered as the country’s second summer capital, Ara Vista Village belongs to “the cooler side of Cavite” as General Trias enjoys a similar climate. It certainly doesn’t hurt that Ara Vista is also 160 feet above sea level, which also makes it “flood-proof” by design.

Known for various developments located in key cities around the country, including high-rise condominium projects in Makati and Mandaluyong, Picar has designed Ara Vista Village to be a self-contained park-life community filled with lush landscaped areas, commercial spaces, sports facilities, a theme park and playground and schools that specialize in IT-based learning.

Residents will love waking up and coming back to a place where they are welcomed by a wide and fully landscaped entrance gate that blends seamlessly well with acacia and firewood trees alternately adorning both sides of the road.  The main road itself has a bicycle lane where residents, young and old, can go biking—worry-free.  The secondary roads, on the other hand, have a planting strip but narrower than the one at the main avenue providing trees that in turn can provide shade for hot days and cool breeze on colder weather.

All of these amenities do not in any way compromise the beauty and the comfort that one can find in any of the Ara Vista homes. The hectares of thoughtfully conceived and well laid-out bungalow and two-story houses are part and parcel of Ara Vista Village’s unique character. Phase 1 has Georgian-themed housing units and a mixed-use community development. Designed and intended for start-up families, the Classic House Collection consists of two bungalow varieties in Christine and Clara as well as a couple of two-story choices in Cielo and Angela.

On the other hand, the Premier House Collection is specifically designed for those with growing-up families. Offering more ample space, it has “Premier” versions of Christine, Clara, Cielo and Angela—all of which are accessible through wallet-friendly payment terms.

In Ara Vista Village, Picar has built an ideal park-life community where nature and technology blend seamlessly. It offers quality yet affordable homes in a progressive location and within a community that is orderly, full of amenities and loaded with potential and opportunities. It not only redefines the town of General Trias but also promises to be a landmark to watch out for in the whole of Cavite.

Whether one decides to live there right away, simply make a weekend getaway or prefer to utilize it for a future purpose, Ara Vista Village is a sound investment from the word “go.”

Nida Poll on approval ratings for Yingluck vs Abhisit

1327688530 62 Nida Poll on approval ratings for Yingluck vs Abhisit

In a follow up or as a companion post to the post last week about a Suan Dusit poll in December, there is a NIDA Poll which surveyed 1,379 people nationwide from December 23-25. The title of the poll is “Satisfaction with the government and the Prime Minister, 1st poll, December 2011″ (“ความพึงพอใจต่อผลงานรัฐบาลและนายกรัฐมนตรี ครั้งที่ 1 เดือน ธันวาคม 2554”). NIDA notes that they will do this poll every quarter to enable people to follow the performance of the government on various aspects and to reflect the views of the people (โดยจะทำการสำรวจเป็นรายไตรมาสและมีการเปรียบเทียบในแต่ละไตรมาส เพื่อติดตามผลการทำงานของรัฐบาลในด้านต่างๆ และสะท้อนความคิดเห็นของประชาชน).  Unlike some polls, NIDA now provide full access to survey data methodology so BP has included this at the end of this post (as noted below they have gone for equal geographic distribution by region which doesn’t reflect population).*

For comparison purposes, BP tried to find previous NIDA polls to get some context about what the scores mean (i.e is 6.5 out of 10 a phenomenally good score or well just average). It is best to compare polls from the same organization and when the same questions are asked. BP has found NIDA polls on the performance of former Prime Minister Abhisit Vejjajiva and his government from August 2009-May 2010 and have included those (yes, it would have been better to have included a more diverse time period like BP did with the Suan Dusit polls, but simply couldn’t find any such polls)

Q1: Points for performance of the Yingluck government (คะแนนผลงานโดยรวมของรัฐบาลนางสาวยิ่งลักษณ์  ชินวัตร).

Source: Aug 09-May 10 (DOC); December 2011 (HTML and PDF). The above scores/ratings are out of 10.

1.1. To explain the weighted and population fields, BP looked at the Dec 2011 figures and noticed – it is more apparent for Yingluck in 2 – that the Bangkok and South figures seemed to be weighing the “Total” rating for December 11 down excessively. This is because while the poll surveyed 1,379 people nationwide, but it did so equally by region regardless of the population of that region which resulted in the number of people being surveyed as follows: Bangkok 277, Central 277, North 277, Northeast 272, and South 276.

Mahidol University has a population gazette – last updated January 2011 – which provides the population of each region and so the “Pop” field in BP’s chart above is the percentage of Thailand’s total population which is in that region. For the “Weighted” field, the key figure is the total of 6.55 which is the adjusted figure that comes out when you weigh the December 11 figures by the percentage of the population of each region. This “Total” seems a more reflective nationwide figure than 6.24 which you get when you add the Dec 11 figures together and divide by 5 with no adjustment made for population.** BP hasn’t adjusted the Democrat figures downwards as BP found no mention in the NIDA source of the geographical breakdown for the previous polls - from BP’s experience with NIDA polls and looking at the survey data from the elections, they were very accurate with their geographical breakdown (see here and here) – so it would be unfair to adjust the Democrat government ratings (they would likely go down slightly given the Democrats do better in the South which has a smaller population than the Northeast).

Note: The individual region figures for December 11 are still accurate. It is only the 6.24 Total figure which doesn’t reflect a nationwide total.

1.2 The most recent Suan Dusit poll on the 4 months performance of Yingluck had a specific question on the performance of the government and a breakdown by region which BP has below (NIDA figures in brackets):

A. North. 7.29 (6.53)

B. Northeast, 6.81 (7.47)

C. Bangkok, 5.65 (6.02)

D. Central, 5.6 (6.61)

E. South, 5.44 (4.61)

BP:  The NIDA Poll, aside from being a different polling company is slightly different, it is just a general rating now whereas the Suan Dusit poll was a rating of the 4 months. It is not surprising that the government does the best in the Northeast although BP was slightly surprised that the government did better in the Central region than in the North (contrast with the Suan Dusit poll). The Yingluck government scored better than the Abhisit government in all regions except the South.

2. Satisfaction that the people have towards the Prime Minister Yingluck Shinawatra (ความพึงพอใจของประชาชนต่อตัวนายกรัฐมนตรี “นางสาวยิ่งลักษณ์ ชินวัตร”).

Note: Ratings are not out of 10, it is simply satisfied/not satisfied (approval rating).

2.1 Again, BP has adjusted/weighed the total figures. See explanation in 1.1 above. Again, the key total figure is now 63.16 satisfaction (approval). You will also see how well Abhisit compared with this government and Yingluck doesn’t do as well, and actually scores lower than the government – for Suan Dust she still scores above though. See BP’s comments in the Suan Dusit Poll which BP has excerpted below:

To reiterate an old point, Abhisit was really the jewel in the Democrat crown continually outperforming the Cabinet  (by .43, .42, and .61 respectively). See posts about Abhisit being the jewel in the Democrat crown here and here in December 2011. Yingluck outscores the Cabinet although at only about half the rate that Abhisit did (.28). The Yingluck Cabinet rating performs better than Abhisit’s Cabinet so part of the reason is the overall public perception of the Abhisit Cabinet’s performance was not as high compared with that of the Yingluck Cabinet although this doesn’t mean that Abhisit wasn’t the jewel in the Democrat crown as his ratings are significantly higher than either the performance of his Cabinet or other ratings given to his government as well as score being at least 6.33 which is quite high. However, Abhisit’s shine started to wear off – see posts in March 2011 here and here on that – which is shown by the polls on his performance mentioned in 1.1

BP: We can’t see whether Abhisit’s shine started to wear off in 2011 as the NIDA Polls only go up until May 2010, but before May 2010 he scored very well in all parts of the country. It is interesting to see how his figures change between March 2010 and May 2010 which covers the red shirt protests. From March 2010 – May 2010, he did much better in Bangkok, stayed the same in Central and the North, but did worse in the Northeast and the Central Region (because of its geographical proximity many red shirt protesters who came to Bangkok were from the Central Region).

As long as Yingluck is above 50%, things are still going ok.

2.2 It is interesting to see how Yingluck does compared with her government, but BP should note that there is a difference between ratings out of 10 and satisfaction/approval. For example, if you are somewhat supportive of the government, but not overall satisfied, you may only give the government a rating of 3 or 4 which still helps for government when working out the overall rating, but in such an example you would give a “not satisfied” which means Yingluck gets the equivalent of a zero. This can also work in reverse and if you are only somewhat satisfied with the government, you may only give a 6, but you still give Yingluck a satisfied so it is a full score. Of course, you have the separate fact that one is asking about Yingluck and the other is asking about the government and people may have different views on these. The same goes for Abhisit and the government – see Abhisit’s scores in the South versus those of his government.

Compared with her government, Yingluck does better in the Northeast, 82.72% versus 7.42, and slightly better in the North 66.43% versus 6.53, but worse in Bangkok, the Central Region, and the South. Then again, BP is not surprised by this.

3. Percentage of people who are satisfied with the performance of Yingluck government in solving various problems (ร้อยละของประชาชนที่พึงพอใจต่อการแก้ไขปัญหาด้านต่างๆ ของรัฐบาลนางสาวยิ่งลักษณ์ ชินวัตร)

NOTE: Ratings are not out of 10, it is simply satisfied/not satisfied (approval rating).

BP: Again, BP has included the weighed numbers based on the population of each region. See explanation in 1.1 (used same population stats from Mahidol).These are issues chosen by NIDA and well, the choosing of them is quite subjective – the economic one is likely to be important in an election than say the South – but at least they asked the same questions for the Abhisit government so there is some point of comparison. Needless to say, those in the North and the Northeast are relatively happy with most things, ie 55% are satisfied with the performance in solving problems in the Deep South compared with only 11% in the South who are satisfied. Clearly, their views of the government – positive or negative – is reflected in their assessment.

*Survey data methodology:

Region: Bangkok 277, Central 277, North 277, Northeast 272, and South 276

Sex:Males 49%; Females 51%

Age:Under 25, 221 (16%)25-39, 539 (39%)40-59, 513 (37%)60+, 106 (8%)

BP: As with most polls, this seems to under-represent those aged over 60. This is probably because these people are more likely to be at home and are harder to survey.

Religion:Buddhist 95%,Christian 4%,Muslim 1%

BP: Don’t normally include religion, but this is just bizarre. (P.S thought: Upon second look, think Nida just mislabeled their field headings and switched Muslims and Christians because 47 out of the 58 Christians or 47 out of 276 ppl surveyed were in the South (i.e. if it had been Muslims it would match fairly accurately in reality)).

Education Status : Grade 6 or less, 407 (30%)Grade 12 or equivalent, 467 (34%)Vocational Certificate or equivalent, 132 (10%)Bachelor’s degree or equivalent, 332 (24%)Higher than Bachelor’s degree, 41 (3%)

Employment Status:Civil Servant/state enterprise, 147 (11%)Private company employee, 211 (15%)Business owner/freelance (includes self-employed), 276 (20%)Farmers/laborers, 467 (34%)Housewife/house-husband/retired/unemployed, 143 (10%)Students, 135 (10%)

BP: Again, the “Housewife/house-husband/retired/unemployed” category probably under-represents this group and the student group is over-represented although this is the nature of most polls (i.e as they are mostly at home and hence more difficult to survey).

Income (monthly):None, 267 (19%)Less than 10,000, 538 (39%)10,001-20,000, 305 (22%)20,001-30,000, 106 (8%)30,001-40,000, 346 (3%)More than 40,000, 54 (4%)Unspecified, 63 (5%)

**BP couldn’t find an explanation that NIDA had already adjusted the regional ratings by population. There is mention of the  SE Mean figure but the Poll itself doesn’t say that NIDA has already adjusted the ratings and given that the total figure is simply reached by adding up the regional ratings and dividing by 5, BP has to assume NIDA hasn’t. The alternative is that NIDA has adjusted the regional ratings which would be a little bizarre if they did so as the regional ratings are accurate, the only figure you need to adjust is the total.

Dating Tips Christian Beadles Part 2

1327687329 23 Dating Tips Christian Beadles Part 2

You might be dreaming of the perfect person to date, or thinking of a life partner. Christian dating services can help such Christian singles who want to meet their Christian mate online. And if you are searching for the best Christian dating services, either online or offline, then we are here with some very useful tips which may help you.Many Christian personals and dating websites offer many services like email, instant messaging, discussion boards, and mingling areas, or you may just be searching for pen pals, seniors, or friends.Always keep this in mind if you are searching for traditional religious Christian dating services or specialty agencies like Catholic, Chinese, Hispanic or teen dating services – these may be somewhat difficult to search; you are more likely to search for these dating services, agencies or networks in larger cities like New York City, Chicago, Los Angeles and Seattle. Once you have done your research locally, you can start researching free and paid Christian dating sites or matchmaking sites online. It is quite possible that a large general dating service may have more Christian members than a smaller Christian dating service.Some of the online Christian Dating Services are run by both Christians and non Christians; this may or may not matter to you. Christian dating services can help you find many different types of Christian singles such as Christian seniors, Christian single parents, and black single Christians. If you are an adolescent searching for single teens, a good number of dating services request that your age should not be less than 18 years old. There is a number of Christian dating services on the Internet having millions of users registered to them for you to find a perfect match.When meeting a person through online dating, you always have to be very careful. Always meet your online date in a public place and make sure your nearest friend has knowledge about this meeting. It is also a good idea to take a mobile phone. If you are unable to find a desirable Christian Dating Services then you must go through a reputable general dating service. There you can state that you are looking for a good Christian man, woman, or other specifics like racial, cultural group, orthodox, Catholic, etc.; most of the responsible members of these dating services are Christians.If you apply yourself every day to this task at hand, you should be capable to line up the right dating possibilities fast. Whether you are searching for a more informal relationship, or something more serious, now is the time to initiate searching; check out some Christian dating websites today. Keep in mind that Christian dating services observe people through their websites and are more ready to lend a hand to single Christians in the long run.

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NONFICTION REVIEW Book exposes the violation of church and state in schools

1327683728 77 NONFICTION  REVIEW Book exposes the violation of church and state in schools

In this fascinating exposé, investigative journalist Katherine Stewart uncovers what she asserts to be the hard truth about the Christian right’s "stealth assault on America’s children." In "The Good News Club" (Public Affairs, 304 pages, $25.99), she investigates crusading evangelical religious missions disguised as innocuous after-school programs, beginning with one at the public elementary school where her children were enrolled in Santa Barbara, Calif.

Stewart first encountered a Bible study class called the "Good News Club" in January 2009. To her alarm, the course — while voluntary — was actively (and often without notice) breaching the separation of state and church.

Part of a wider initiative orchestrated by the Child Evangelism Fellowship, the class was designed to reconstruct America’s public school system as an evangelical Christian institution. Its object, Stewart found, is to indoctrinate youngsters in the belief that their school favors the Christian faith.

Perhaps her most surprising revelation is that, by the end of 2010, Stewart counted nearly 3,500 similar groups, from small-town America to major cities like Seattle and New York. These schools house and profit from church-funded religious groups that are willing to pay to borrow their classrooms.

Stewart’s analysis suggests that fundamentalist Christianity has amassed undue influence in what should remain an inviolably nonreligious educational endeavor.

Stewart has dug deep, interviewing both proponents and detractors of religiously centered education, including school board members, superintendents, local club leaders, students and athletic directors who have "turned [sports programs] into religious recruiting," according to Stewart.

She describes how such a club wins schoolwide access, even against the opposition of a district superintendent. Each religious sect is armed with legal papers, an instruction manual on "how to incentivize unchurched children to attend meetings," and behind-the-scenes support from the Child Evangelism Fellowship.

"As I flip through the hundreds of pages of THE PLAN and its supporting materials," Stewart writes, "it becomes clear to me just what kind of corporation the CEF is most like: it’s a nonprofit, religious version of a multilevel marketing corporation. … The local Clubs in turn provide the manpower and the money."

These same efforts, Stewart concludes, deprive public schools funding in favor of vouchers for enrollment in religious-affiliated private institutions. While voicing earnest concerns about the Christian right’s influence on public education, Stewart is a gracious narrator, respectful of the religious and nonreligious participants she came across during her quite vast research.

In sum, the book is an important work that reveals a movement little discussed in the mainstream media, one Stewart worries is poised to damage "a society as open and pluralistic as ours."

Alexander Heffner is a freelance writer whose work has appeared in the Washington Post, Boston Globe and USA Today.

Tariq Ramadan: EU Muslims or Muslims in Europe? – Society – Reading Islam – OnIslam.net

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Part 1 of Dr. Ramadan’s talk in Austria on Islam as a European Religion, at the Salzburg Seminar. The session was entitled “Immigration and Inclusion: Rethinking National Identity

I’m sorry not being able to speak in German. I studied six years in Switzerland and my first PhD was on Nietzsche’s philosophy, and I lost everything.

So this is the first thing to take which is not my example of forgetting a language that you have studied at school, and unfortunately I’m obliged to speak in English.

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I was asked to speak about a certain topic. Do we have to speak about being European Muslims or being Muslims in Europe?

And I think it’s not by accident, 15 years ago when I first wrote a book to be a European Muslim I got some reactions from my fellow Muslims saying: “No you have to say being a Muslim in Europe”.

I say “No I’m European by culture, and I’m a Muslim by religion so I’m a European Muslim”. So it’s not to be a Muslim somewhere else. This is home for me, and this is home for you, and this is home for us.

Integration is a Word of the Past

As an introduction, I think it’s really important to face the reality of being Muslims or European Muslims in our countries. And I heard of course that your situation in Austria may be better than others in other European societies. Still, if you look at what is going on now in the mainstream media around the world and especially in Europe, what we have to say is that the coverage of Islam and Muslims is mainly negative. So the perception the people around have about Islam and Muslims is negative, and we are facing this everyday. Just arriving here, reading in a UK newspaper, The Times, an article saying the problem is not with radical Muslims, the problem is with Islam itself because radical Muslims are in fact following the true message of Islam.

What the Muslims should do is to refuse the victim mentality. It’s not a question to be liked or not to be liked. It’s a question of rights

You know that we have far-right parties and something which has been normalizing the discourse in Europe about this. So the Muslims have two choices: the first one is to say “OK, look, the people around us don’t like Muslims and they don’t like Islam” and to nurture something which is the victim mentality: “They don’t like us, they don’t like Islam, let us be among ourselves, to withdraw among ourselves and to be Muslims far from the society”. This is the wrong answer. This is exactly what far-right parties want in our European societies.

What the Muslims should do is to refuse the victim mentality. It’s not a question to be liked or not to be liked. It’s a question of rights, it’s a question of understanding, it’s a question of self-respect. It’s to stand up for our responsibilities as citizens and as Muslims and to say “Look, we are not going to accept you to target us and promote racism. It’s now time to live together, to respect each other and to know each other”. So to stand up for our responsibilities is the only right Islamic and positive answer that Muslims should promote and not the victim mentality which is sometimes around in the Muslim communities in Europe.

The second point is that what we have now normalized in the discourse is people coming to you and saying you Muslims and us as Europeans. This “us” vs. “them” is not acceptable. I’m part of this new “us”, I’m not outside Europe. It’s “us” as Europeans and us as Europeans, Muslims, atheists, Jews, Christians and whatever you want to be, you are European.

So the problem here is to say “Look, it’s a question of common values and common citizenship”, and be careful because till now even though you are less advanced as to the history of the Muslim presence in Austria as for example in France or in other countries in Europe with decades of Muslim presence, we still have people say “You have to integrate”.

I think we have to be cautious with the concept of integration, because people are nurturing this “You have to integrate, you have to integrate” and nurturing in their own minds and in our minds that to be integrated still means that you are not part of us, so we are waiting for you to be part of us. What we have to say is “We are sorry. We are already integrated. Our main concern today is not to be integrated, it’s to contribute to the future of our society”.

So it’s different now. Integration is a word of the past. The word of the future and the word of the present is contribution; what could we give as Austrian citizens, European citizens to our country. Stop talking about integration. Talk about living together, acting together, and contributing together for the sake of our common future.

So the last point is really something that we have to say. Maybe some people don’t want to listen to this: Islam is a European religion. Islam is part of the European landscape. By the way, it’s not new. For all the people who are now building a new past to Europe and saying “We want to talk to you as people coming from outside” we have to tell them “Look, you have to revisit your own past, because it’s not true that the European history is only based on Greek or Roman and Judeo-Christian legacy. It’s wrong. The past of Europe is Judeo-Christian-Islamic, and we are part of Europe for a long time. So what we are trying to do by our presence is to reconcile yourself with your own past, because by having a selective approach of your past you are building a selective present.

What do we have to say to ourselves to move from a victim mentality to our responsibilities as Austrian Muslims and European Muslims?

So this is something which is really important and this is our business to come to something which should be important in our curriculum in the schools. We have to integrate this past as part of the European legacy. If you put us outside your past it means that you have difficulties to consider us as part of your present. So we have to take this as something which is a deep challenge.

What I want to say is now not only to speak about our fellow-citizens, but as we are here as a very impressive gathering of the Muslim community, the Austrian Muslim community, is to come to something which is from within. What do we have to say to ourselves to move from a victim mentality to our responsibilities as Austrian Muslims and European Muslims?

The Seven Cs

I want to share with you the promotion of 7 Cs.

The first one which is really important is confidence. The second one is criticism; the critical mind. The third one is communication. The fourth one is contribution. … The sixth one is citizenship and the last one is creativity.

Let me go very quickly through all this, and share with the Muslims here, the young and the not so young Muslims, something which should be heard by our fellow-Europeans, your fellow-Austrian citizens, in order to build a future together.

The first one which is really important: If now you don’t get this confidence that you are at the same time fully Muslim and fully Austrian and there is no contradiction between being a Muslim and being an Austrian, and you are at peace with yourself you will not spread peace around you. Faqid alshai’a la yo`utih as we say in Arabic (If you don’t get something you can’t give it)

So the point here is to be confident with our own values…

Watch Dr. Tariq Ramadan’s Talk 

What Makes Ed Hardy A Famous Brand?

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Ed Hardy has become one of the famous names in the fashion industry today. A favorite among the celebrities, tattoo artists, hip hop artists and athletes, this brand has continually gained popularity because of its unique; yet, trendy designs.

What started as a famous tattoo artist has turned into a brand of clothing lines. Don Ed Hardy, a famous tattoo artist in the US, and was considered as the father of modern tattoo, has teamed up with Christian Audigier, the person behind Von Dutch, Levi’s and Diesel, to create a new brand of clothing that speaks of art and high end fashion.

With the trendy fashion taste of the French designer and the artistic tattoo graphics of Don Ed Hardy, you no longer need to have a tattoo done on your body and at the same time wear a fashionable T-shirt, for example, to showcase your artistic and fashionable side. The fusion of experts in their own field has produced unconventional and extraordinary designs.

More than just a line of clothing, the brand has turned into a lifestyle trend. Aside from shirts, hoodies, outer wear and more, the brand also extends to fashionable collection of fashion accessories that include bracelets, belts, fashion hats, sneakers for kids, men and women. The outrageous; yet, trendy creations in its line of clothing and accessories will surely catch the attention of the people even in the crowd because of the attention grabbing beautiful tattoos printed over the clothing. Moreover, the brand has continuously grown in appeal, getting the attention of millions of fashion lovers each year while selling at a price that is easy on the pocket.

As proof of its bold; yet, unique designs, there are lots of celebrities who are spotted wearing Ed Hardy. Some of these celebrities are Madonna, Kanye West, Britney Spears, Fergie, Shakira and Jessica Alba.

On the other hand, it is not only the celebrities that were attracted to Ed Hardy. At present, the Ed Hardy brand is popular among the youth culture because of its vintage intricate style tattoos, high street fashion and bold colors. Also, band lovers go for Ed Hardy’s tattooed clothing rather than having tattoos on their bodies. The women who choose Ed Hardy over the other brands go for the tough; yet, feminine look, while men; on the other hand, are attracted to its edgy rock star look.

Thus, if you are into tough; yet, girlish appeal or edgy rock star look, then Ed Hardy is the perfect brand of clothing for you!

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Abortion Weighs Heavily in Reproductive Rights Debate

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It’s estimated there are more than 45 million abortions worldwide every year. Reproductive rights advocates say more than half are unsafe, causing many injuries and deaths among young women. They say protecting adolescent women should be part of the development agenda. The issue was discussed at an event at a Washington think tank.

Many unintended, many unsafe

Leila Hessini is director of community mobilization at Ipas, an NGO working to end preventable deaths and injuries from unsafe abortions. She spoke at a recent event at the Woodrow Wilson Center in Washington, DC.

“Every year, there are 87 million unintended pregnancies. So this is 41 percent of all pregnancies. And this is really a figure that we need to unpack and understand because so much contributes to that. It’s about unmet need for contraception. It’s about sexual violence. It’s about contraception being unaffordable. So there are a lot of reasons that go into this,” she said.

Hessini said 33 million of the unintended pregnancies are among women using contraceptives. She says that means either a failure of the contraceptive itself or in the way in which it’s used.

“Every year there are 46 million abortions. Half of these, 21.6 million, are unsafe. The vast majority of these unsafe abortions are in the Global South. They’re in developing countries. And 30 to 60 percent of adolescent pregnancies end in abortion,” she said.

In sub-Saharan African countries, a high percentage of deaths from unsafe abortions are among adolescent women.

Abortions take place in countries where laws range from allowing easy access to no access at all.

Hessini said, “Forty percent of the world’s women live in countries where abortions are available, what we say, on request. Even though there’s always, as we know, different limitations and restrictions to abortion. Another 26 (percent) live in countries where abortion is only available to save a woman’s life or is prohibited altogether. And those you who follow the abortion debates know that abortions are totally prohibited in certain countries like Nicaragua, El Salvador, Chile, Dominican Republic, Malta and the Vatican City.”

Protection of women needed

Jennifer Redner, a consultant for the International Women’s Health Coalition, said too often basic rights are not protected.

“In too many places, the fundamental right of every woman and girl to control her body simply isn’t recognized. For a girl, control over her body and her sexual life requires more than access to health services. Her most basic human rights – freedom from violence, discrimination and coercion – must be protected both in their own right and to enable her access to services,” she said.

Redner said solutions to the problems are not new. They just haven’t been fully implemented.

“Multi-sectoral programming that works with adolescent girls and their communities to address the multiple barriers that girls face accessing health services, attending school, preventing early marriage, preventing violence and building the economic assets of girls will contribute to our collective goals of ensuring that girls can safely transition to adulthood and can be economically productive members of their community,” she said.

Fiercely debated

Abortion, whether legal or illegal, safe or unsafe, remains a controversial, hotly debated and fought-over issue.

Taryn Hodgson is the international coordinator of the Christian Action Network based in Cape Town, South Africa.

She said, “Firstly, abortion is never safe, especially not for the baby, who is killed in the process. So whether it’s legal or illegal abortion is never safe for the baby. It’s also never safe for the woman. Statistics from the Elliott Institute, who’ve done peer reviewed research into post abortion issues, have found that at least over 60 percent of women are coerced into having abortions.”

She said that coercion comes from parents, husbands or boyfriends. Hodgson says consequences of having an abortion include depression, nightmares and grief. She added legal abortions do not lower maternal death rates.

“Maternal deaths can be prevented with adequate nutrition, basic health care and good obstetric care throughout the pregnancy at delivery and post-partum,” she said.

The Christian Action Network official said this is especially true in many African countries with poor health care systems. As for women having control over their own bodies, Hodgson said, “It’s not a question of whether she should have control over her body. She now has a child, not a choice. The issue of children’s rights, right from conception, needs to be addressed.”

South Africa legalized abortions in 1997. Hodgson says despite that there’s been an increase in illegal or back street abortions because the government has not cracked down on them. What’s more, she says, pills to induce abortion are now readily available on many street corners in South Africa.

She said abortion should be banned under all circumstances, adding that cases in which the mother’s life is in danger are rare. In that case, however, she said the doctor should try to save both lives and not choose who will live.

The Elliott Institute mentioned by Hodgson is in Springfield, Illinois. It says its strategy is to end abortion with compassion. And that the welfare of a mother and her unborn child are inseparable.

Readers debate: What role will religion play in the 2012 presidential race? (poll)

Mention religion and politics — and, specifically, the 2012 presidential election — and you’re sure to start a conversation.

10488798 large Readers debate: What role will religion play in the 2012 presidential race? (poll)AP PhotoRepublican presidential candidates, from left, former Pennsylvania Sen. Rick Santorum, former Massachusetts Gov. Mitt Romney, former House Speaker Newt Gingrich and Rep. Ron Paul, R-Texas, take part in a Republican presidential debate Monday at the University of South Florida.

MLive commenters certainly prove that point: They posted a wide range of responses to statements from Calvin College political science professor Kevin den Dulk, who predicted religion will play a key role in November.

“We have, over the last several election cycles, seen what we call a ‘God gap,’ meaning religious people tend to vote Republican and others tend to vote Democratic,” den Dulk said. “The ‘God gap’ hasn’t disappeared and does explain some of the polarization we continue to see.” 

GMT1975 acknowledged that religion has played a key role in shaping the candidates, but cautioned about putting too much faith into a person’s words.

“Religion has it’s role in values, that help form the person as a whole, and guide their decisions, in everyday life. But common sense and the value of fairness and truth are not purely the realm of religion. There are plenty of folks out there that are non-religious, who exhibit these values. If one needs to preach to get elected, then one is not practicing those values put forth in the constitution. Political pandering to the religious electorate is just that, pandering.”

Matthew discussed the notion of God encouraging candidates to run for president.

“First, if God did in fact tell Bachmann to run, that doesn’t mean He told her she would win. Maybe her run inspired a 16 year old kid to become involved in politics and she will become the first female president. Maybe her run will inspire women to run for political office.”

Some, like wannabe2, hoped for a separation of religion and politics.

“Can’t we just keep religion out of it? We have enough to worry about with the deficit, joblessness, and wars. No religion has the corner on ethics, and what we need now is an ethical and honest president.”

0000000 predicted the election will be decided on other issues, not religion.

“IMHO, beating the drum and sounding the bugle won’t cause thinking people of any age to vote for a candidate mouthing their “Christian principles” and “American values.” We’ve been there, done that. This election is going to be about good paying jobs, no more taxes on the 99%, taxing and regulating big business and no more bailouts. 2012 is here!”

And Kevin Rahe urged people to review their political options with an open mind.

“Actually, a true Christian cannot comfortably park him/herself at a single point on the political spectrum and uphold all of Christian teaching. If a Christian finds themselves always agreeing 100% with one political party or another, I suggest that they have an agenda that is not subservient to their faith.”